
A large part of why many don’t come into Sikhi is down to the fact they have never understood the Guru’s message. The Guru’s message is the sweetest and most divine speech you will ever find on this planet. That might sound like a subjective claim but go and ask the countless Shaheed Singhs/Singhniya who fought to the last breath to protect it. Go and ask the numerous children who died in order to keep the Guru’s message alive. When you learn, implement and experience the meaning of Gurbani, you will also experience the love that the countless GurSikhs of the past did.
What a message.
It literally has the ability to turn sinners into saints and cowards into warriors; if we believe. Gurbani can reveal the mysteries of the Lord; the One that created this whole play.
The thing is, who is going to sacrifice their time for the Guru?
Gurmukhi (the language in which Gurbani has been written) is very intricate and complex in nature. Therefore, in order to understand the message that the Guru is giving us, we first have to understand the language the Guru has written the message in. Unfortunately, just as many other aspects of Sikhi; the Western rhetoric influences our belief system. Instead of making the effort to learn Gurmukhi, we settle for a romanised transliterated version of our Gurus words, and then wonder why we don’t connect with GurBani.
We need to go to the effort of enrolling in classes and learning the language. It’s not good enough to say ‘I don’t understand’ or ‘I don’t speak Punjabi’ because there is something that you can physically do to learn. You weren’t born with the ability to speak English, you went to classes and learnt. Go to your local Gurdwara and see when/where the santhia (Gurbani reading) classes are held; join. It could change your life. Once you have learnt the language then you can go to GurSikh’s and begin to understand what our Guru is actually saying to you.
The ritualistic approach of going to the Gurdwara, doing matha-tek, eating prashad/langar and going home isn’t Sikhi. That’s not the Guru’s message. Guru Nanak Dev Ji was against ritualistic worship more than anything else.
ਕੋਈ ਆਣਿ ਮਿਲਾਵੈ ਮੇਰਾ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮੁ ਪਿਆਰਾ ਹਉ ਤਿਸੁ ਪਹਿ ਆਪੁ ਵੇਚਾਈ ॥੧॥
If only someone would come, and lead me to meet my Darling Beloved; I would sell myself to him. ||1||
(Guru Raam Das Ji, Ang 757
If we’re honest, we don’t blame those that have neither understood nor tried to understand Gurbani. After all, who is delivering the message?
Majority of parents have become passive to the teachings of the Guru themselves. Not only that but Gurdware (Sikh temples) haven’t moved with the times and tried to attract the youth toward the faith. The only thing you will go to a Gurdwara and learn is how much they need for their building fund. This is the uncomfortable truth we are confronted with in 2019, UK.
A Gurdwara used to be a centre of excellence, a hub, a community centre where the most divine truths were revealed; where you learnt about how to deal with this thing that we call life that none of us actually understand.